Saturday, June 2, 2012

Week 39


How I am feeling 

I am still feeling good, but I am really ready for Lilly to get here.  It’s so hard to wait!  When I left work on Friday, I was joking with my teammates and I told them I hope I don’t see them on Monday!  It’s nothing personal of course, I am just hoping to be in labor J  I have decided that Lilly should be born on Monday, June 4, because then her birthday would be 6-4, which is the team I teach on at HGMS.  How perfect is that???  I still love the idea of her birthing being 6-6-12 as well, so I am ok with her being on time as well. 

Some people have decided to start guessing when she will be born.  Sadly, I think only one person so far has said she will come early.  Come on ladies!  Don’t wish a baby coming late for another woman!  I am willing to wait for her, but it would be great if people were sending early delivery vibes my way instead of late delivery. 

 Maybe this will be my last blog before Lilly is born!  Or maybe not…we’ll see!

Here is what I look like at 39 weeks:


Here is a side by side of me at 29 weeks and 39 weeks:



 Lilly went from a grapefruit to a watermelon pretty quickly!!!


Baby movement/progress:

I had the most amazing dream last night.  It might sound strange, but I dreamed about holding Lilly for the first time after delivery and her lying on my chest.  She then did the allusive “breast crawl” and started nursing.  I know this might seem a little strange, but it was the most amazing dream and I was so happy when I woke up that I didn’t even want to go back to sleep even though it was a little earlier than I wanted to get up.  I just wanted to remember that dream and to not get it muddled by other dreams if I went back to sleep.  Dreams when you are pregnant are so vivid that it really seemed real.  Hopefully I won’t have to wait too much longer to make this dream a reality!

At my last doctor’s appointment on Wednesday, things have not changed much.  I am still between 1-2 cm dilated and she is at -2 station.  She didn’t tell me how effaced I am, but she did say that my cervix is thinning, so that is good.  Numbers mean so little anyway.  Lilly will come when she is ready.  Babies come on their own schedule and don’t follow a set formula.  I have been working out still and walking a lot to try to speed things up naturally, but who knows if any of those things actually work.  I’ve heard it all: spicy food, bumpy car rides, eating eggplant parmesan, raspberry tea.  I haven’t tried any of these things, but it is kind of amazing how many people swear that some of these things work.

Shout Outs

Thank you to everyone for all the support and advice throughout my pregnancy.  This has been an amazing journey and I am so lucky to have so many amazing people in my life to make the journey a little less scary and a lot easier.



Nursery:

Everything is organized, clothing is washed and ready, and we have (as far as we can tell) everything we need.  It really feels like a nursery now because it’s full of stuff!  I thought I’d post one more set of pictures now that we’re so close. 






Labor and Birth:

 Darren and I sat down the other night and went over the information we received from our birthing class.  It was nice to review the information together, talk about anything we were nervous about and just make sure we are both on the same page about everything.  I told him I am nervous about him taking things personally if I get upset or short with him during labor, but it was nice to hear him assure me that he will understand and he won’t get mad. 

I really feel good about the choices we have made regarding labor and birth, and I am hoping things go (at least somewhat) according to how we would like.  I am also mentally preparing myself for the unexpected (which sounds like a contradiction) so that if things do not go according to plan, I am also prepared for that.  I am a firm believer that knowledge is power, so I am just trying to get every piece of knowledge possible ahead of time.  

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