Sunday, July 15, 2012

Lilly Rae - Week 5



Day 29 – July 8, 2012




Lilly is 4 weeks old today!  It is so hard to believe that it has already been 4 weeks since our beautiful baby girl came into our lives.  Anyone who tells you that having a baby won’t change your life that much has never had a baby.  You may be able to still go out and do a lot of the things you used to do, but I assure you, your mentality and the way you think about EVERYthing changes.  I feel like I look at the world in a completely different way now that another person relies on me to keep them safe and happy.  I also find that the things I valued and found important (besides the big things like friends and family) have changed.  Have a baby…you’ll see!



Today was a fun day because we went to see Jared and Carissa’s new house!  Addie was so excited to show me the house that she took me by the hand and was leading me around.  Their house is absolutely beautiful!  Lilly then had some cuddle time with Carissa (surprise, surprise I forgot to take a picture) and Addie and Drew were very excited to tickle her feet J  We all had lunch together while Lilly took a nap and then Addie and Drew posed for a few pictures with Lilly before we had to leave.






Lilly still loves taking naps with Mommy…or maybe it’s Mommy who loves taking naps with Lilly?  Either way, they are great naps!  It’s so nice to just curl up and feel her heartbeat and cuddle with her warm, tiny little body all snuggled up on me.  I swear, I will let her do this until she is a teenager!  







Day 30 – July 9, 2012

Today was an interesting day.  I had received a postcard from Sears Portrait Studios with an amazing deal for a small portrait package for only $7.99 with no sitting fee.  Since Darren and I were trying to find something to do each day, the price was right and I wanted to get some cute newborn pictures of Lilly anyway, it seemed like a perfect opportunity.  We started out having to wait while another family chose their pictures, so I snuck away to the bathroom to feed Lilly.  When it was time for our session the photographer asked how many people would be photographed.  I said I wanted one pose with all three of us, but the majority of the session would be just Lilly.  I really wanted a picture of the three of us (I even did my hair that morning, which new moms know is a big deal!).  After we took a few poses with the three of us, it was Lilly’s turn.  We decided to try putting her in one of her really cute, frilly outfits for a few poses.  The photographer sort of sat her on a bean bag covered in a blanket and expected her to sit there with her feet crossed…right.  I was getting nervous because Lilly did not look comfortable in this position and she was starting to get fussy.  So we tried a new outfit and a new position.  The photographer kept on trying to tell Lilly to smile, which is hilarious considering she is 4 weeks old does not exactly smile on command, plus the photographer was having Darren and I “pose” Lilly but she was not always explaining things well.  We were literally crawling around on our hands and knees trying to put Lilly in these crazy poses and she was getting more and more unhappy.  Finally the photographer asked if we wanted any other poses and I asked if we could get some of the cliché (but completely adorable) naked, sleeping baby pictures.  These were BY FAR the easiest poses and they came out the best for sure.  I am glad I spoke up and asked to do these poses, otherwise we would have wasted a lot of time.  Here is a preview photo from our session:


 Getting ready to go to our photo session

After we completed our portrait session, we grabbed some lunch at Greek Fiesta and then were going to Babies R Us and Target.  Lilly was hungry, so I fed her in the car in the parking lot (our first time doing that).  We stocked up on some wipes and diapers from the stores because they had some great sales and I had coupons J  It was starting to storm, so we cut our shopping trip short and headed home. 

When we got home, apparently lightning had shorted out our garage door opener and a few other minor electronics in our house.  I was glad we weren't there when that happened.  Our neighbor, Mike, came over to help Darren fix whatever they could while Lilly and I hung out in the house.  



Cuddling up with Daddy after a long day


Finally getting a good nap

Here is a video clip!



Day 30 – July 9, 2012


I decided to go in to work for a meeting today, which left Darren flying solo with Lilly.  I was completely confident that he would be fine, but it was hard leaving Lilly.  I know it sounds crazy, but I miss her when I just leave the room or when we go to sleep, so I knew leaving her for a couple of hours was going to be tough (how am I going to ever go back to work???)  Lilly and Daddy had a great afternoon while I was gone.

That evening Michelle, Chad, Allie and Ryan came over for dinner.  It was great to all hang out and everyone enjoyed some Lilly cuddle time J  I was not surprised when I had to cut my dinner short to give Lilly her dinner, but I have learned that my meals go by her schedule, so it wasn’t a big deal.  She cluster feeds in the evenings normally anyway, so I was prepared for her to want to eat.  The cluster feeding has been amazing though because she sleeps for 4-5 hours at a time at night.

 Ryan, Allie, Lilly and Aunt Michelle
 Aunt Michelle is smiling because she can't see the stream of spit up coming out of Lilly!
 Cuddle time with Uncle Chad
 Darren entertains Allie
 Even Daddy got his cuddle time



Day 32 – July 11, 2012

This morning we had some great tummy time with Lilly.  It’s funny that she loves picking her head up constantly when she is being held on our shoulders, but she is very stubborn during tummy time.  It’s a good thing Aunt Jekah made Lilly this really soft and thick blanket that she can play on so she doesn’t get hurt when she picks her head up and drops it back down.




 Maggie was a great helper during play time
 I am still loving Lilly's "monkey toes"

Here is more video, including a smile!



 She deserved a nice nap after all of that hard work!
Getting ready to go out to dinner
Sitting quietly while Mommy and Daddy enjoyed dinner out
 Lilly enjoying her first bottle (given by Daddy) at the restaurant

 Cuddle time with Sonya
Day 33 – July 12, 2012


Today we went to get one of our favorite indulgences – Biscuitville.  Lilly has actually been there with us once before, but I don’t remember if I documented it, and obviously it’s a very important milestone!  We love Biscuitville.  I don’t know if there are any Biscuitville locations in the north, but it’s the best place for breakfast…ever.  Anyway, back to Lilly: she behaved perfectly and allowed Darren and I to enjoy our breakfast.  She is such a great baby!
 Sleeping at Biscuitville


After we came home our neighbor, Matt, let Darren know that they were up for visitors.  Matt and his wife Sam had a baby 5 days ago and we were waiting to get the green light to come and visit.  We walked down the street and were able to meet baby Clara.  She is absolutely beautiful and both she and Sam are doing very well.

Later that evening we went to visit Jess, Matt, Ana and baby Emma.  Emma was born about 10 days before Lilly, so it’s amazing that she will have a playmate so close in age.  The girls can’t really play yet, but we tried to entertain them on Emma’s play mat.  Ana even got in on the action J  It was great to just hang out, have some pizza and catch up with our good friends.  Also, it’s nice to have support from friends who are going through the same experience (even though Emma is their second child).  We had such a great time and look forward to many more “play dates” in the future, especially now that Matt is on track 4!


 Matt, Emma, Darren and Lilly
 The girls posed for some pictures
And then Lilly had enough
 Ana, Emma and Lilly enjoy some play time

Day 34 – July 13, 2012


After seeing how Lilly enjoyed the play mat at Emma’s house yesterday, we remembered that we had one as well and decided to take it out.  Lilly really likes laying on it after tummy time, especially looking at the part with the lights and sound.  It’s funny how entertaining it is for us to just lay and watch her.  We get to see the world through her eyes, which is basically seeing everything for the first time.  I absolutely love every moment we spend with her.

Later that afternoon we went out for our daily “outing”.  This time we went to Starbucks to get free drinks that they were offering between 12-3.  We tried their new “refresher” beverages, which were kind of “eh” but they were free so it was ok.  We really just want to make sure that we get out of the house for something every day.  As much as we love Lilly and love being parents, it definitely turns your world upside down and some of the simple things you take for granted, like going grocery shopping, become a little more difficult (though not as hard as I originally thought).  

 Getting ready to go to Starbucks

 Apparently the trip made her really sleepy
 Play time with Daddy!

 Enjoying her play mat for the first time



Day 35 – July 14, 2012



Our big “outing” today was going to Harris Teeter and Walmart in Holly Springs.  We ran into my friend and teammate, Kim, and her son, Nathan, in the parking lot of Harris Teeter, so that was nice.  It’s also nice to go grocery shopping with Lilly because she is so well behaved and everyone comments on how cute she is (as if we didn’t know that).  We also ran into a former student (future student for Darren) and her mom in Walmart.  It was great to see her and she was excited to see Lilly again.  

 Getting ready to go to the grocery store!  
 I think this face says, "Really Mommy and Daddy?  You're sticking me in this seat again?"


 I took some time in the afternoon, when Lilly is usually in a good mood after her nap, to take some more photos.  I just love all of her expressions!  Multiple people have told me that she is very expressive for her age and not all newborns smile and laugh at this age.  I usually explain that when you live in a house with Darren, it’s hard not to smile and laugh all the time J  I am going to have a lot of “laugh lines” on my face when I am an older woman, but each one will be completely worth it! 
 "Yay!  I have a clean diaper!"
 "At least for the time being...hehe"
 "Mommy has no idea I am already planning my next move..."

 "I am so excited to play with Mommy!"
 "Is she going to let that big, furry, black dog play with us, too?"

 "I'll give Mommy a big smile so she has no idea what I am about to do"
 "Haha, I just pooped again!"
"Hey Mommy, it's time to change me again..." 

We had some nice “tummy time” later in the afternoon to help work on Lilly’s neck strength.  She is getting much better and even turned her head from one side to the other in one motion today!  That might not sound like a lot, but we had never seen her do that before, so we were very excited.  It must be a lot of work for her because she was continually falling asleep and then getting back up and trying again.


Apparently "tummy time" really makes Lilly sleepy

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